The Pearls of Life:

101 Simple Ways to Health and Happiness

Be Vain

be vain

Vanity, the concern for attractiveness, is considered a bad quality in many cultures. It’s certainly true that it is excessive to run to the doctor as if a small pimple on the face were a medical emergency.

But looking good has its evolutionary advantages. Beauty is more than skin deep. It often showcases the underlying body constitution.

Well-lubricated skin and glossy hair in a woman suggest a high estrogen level and the fertility associated with it. Broad shoulders and narrow waists in men signal strength and fitness.

Healthy people tend to look good. They much more easily attract potential mates for procreation. Since appearance does count for the survival of our species, the trait of being vain may be ingrained in our genes.

A healthy dose of vanity is also associated with good self-esteem, which helps us live happier and longer lives.

Rather than because of genuine concern for their health, many people who adopt healthy lifestyles with regular exercise and good nutrition may be more motivated to look good. Having a goal to lose twenty pounds before the summer season so one can fit into smaller swimwear is not uncommon.

It doesn’t matter what actually motivates us to walk or jog thirty minutes a day, or eat more fruits and vegetables. While the motivation for looking good is there, as long as it doesn’t go overboard and make us increasingly narcissistic, we should use it to our advantage!